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Why Cleanliness is Important, and When It’s Not.

July 1st, 2010

This past week my boys have been at summer camp. While they’re off having fun we’ve been adjusting to life without having two teenage boys running around. First thing we noticed was that we weren’t washing dishes, we hadn’t washed a load of clothes in 3 days and that the house was still clean several days after we had cleaned it. The laundry room is spotless, the family room has nothing on the floor and there are no wrappers or cans in the couch. It’s clean.

But it’s also missing something…fun. Having kids around makes you messy, but it adds the most valuable of things…LIFE. Bring the boys back, Let’s get the place dirty again.

So it is at work, especially in high traffic facilities such as the Rescue Mission campuses. WE strive hard to keep them immaculately clean and it’s a standard we won’t budge on, yet never find yourself wishing that “if only these people weren’t here we could keep this place REALLY clean. No, the only reason we want our buildings empty is when we have successfully housed all the homeless and helped them get back on their feet. Until then, let’s fill the place up, overflow it and keep on cleaning.

David Curry

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Is Your Child is Using Drugs?

March 31st, 2010

Last weekend I spoke at a SAFE STREETS event for parents who are struggling with their teenage children using drugs. There are so many questions, doubts and fears that go through the minds of parents when they suspect, and even more when they KNOW, that their children are using drugs.
One of the questions that was raised was “How do you know if your child is using drugs”? There are many great resources on the web regarding this question, but here are 20 questions, compiled from some of the best sources, that you can ask yourself to determine if your child is using drugs:

1. Has anyone ever told you your child is drinking or using drugs?
2. Do you know for sure that your child has ‘experimented’ with either drugs or alcohol?
3. Have you noticed that one-minute your child can be happy and giddy followed by withdrawal, depression, or fits of anger or rage?
4. Has your child suddenly developed the need for additional money, for vague or unexplained reasons?
5. Have you ever seen your child stagger or noticed any slurred speech?
6. Has your child suddenly turned away from his old friends?
7. Have you notice changes in the pupils of your child’s eyes, or redness or bloodshot eyes?
8. Is your child suddenly using breath mints consistently?
9. Has your child lost interest in tidiness in his room or does your child pay less attention to personal hygiene?
10. Has your child developed a negative attitude against anti-drug or anti-alcohol programs, materials or literature?
11. Has your child been in trouble with the law for any reason?
12. Has your child developed a bad attitude toward any authority figures in his life?
13. Have you found that your child has generally become dishonest about things?
14. Have you notice any alcoholic beverages missing or noticed anything missing from the medicine cabinet?
15. Have you found unexplained empty alcohol or solvent containers around the house or grounds?
16. Is your child smoking openly?
17. Has your child had medical conditions that might be attributed to substance abuse, such as digestive problems?
18. Has your child’s attitude toward school suddenly changed?
19. Is your child hanging out with an older group or with those that you suspect are using drugs?
20. Have you seen your child’s grades go from pretty good to very bad?

The more “YES” answers, the greater the chances that your suspicions are valid and that your child  is using.  If you determine that you have to address the problem and don’t know what to do one of the Rescue Mission counselors would be happy to walk you through how to address the situation.  Leave a comment here on the blog or send an email to Janns@trm.org to arrange a phone appointment.

David Curry

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PUSHING THE CREATIVITY ENVELOPE

February 23rd, 2010

So often we think of creativity as dreaming up something totally new and unusual.  Creativity is much more than that!  Yet, this definition leads most people to think they’re not creative when actually have creatively pouring through their veins every minute of the day.

Here’s a couple of ideas to expand your definition of what CREATIVITY IS:

APPLYING THE OF ADVANCEMENT OF OTHER DISCIPLINES TO YOUR JOB/LIFE. So often the challenge that ministries and social services face in being creative (in addition to cultures that try to reward conformity) is that they don’t apply the learnings of the arts, technology, engineering and so on, to their work until those learnings have been previously digested by the greater population and watered down.  Instead, get on the front line and look for new things that are happening in these areas RIGHT NOW and imagine who those developments can affect your work.  How can developments in architecture change the ways churches share community? How will technology change the way RESCUE MISSION’S connect with their ALUMNI?  How can we use therapeutic art to bring spiritual healing?  What changes in employment law on the horizon will allow us to create a super innovative culture in social services and ministry?  The exciting advances that could be possible for you are endless and will help make you super creative in your field and position.  Don’t be afraid to learn from an area that has seemingly no relation to your work.  Just ask the questions and see what happens.  You might be surprised what improvements you cold make by applying the learnings of others.

Doing a “360″ on the NEW THING to se if it applies to your work. Here’s the usual pattern we’ve seen throughout history; a new development in technology, communication, learning, etc, comes out and the masses don’t reject it as “not useful”  A handful of creatives take the new technology and instead of rejecting it out of hand they do a “360″ on the new innovation.  By 360 I mean they look at it from all angles, turning it upside down, left, right, front and back to examine who it might possibly be a benefit to their work both now or in the future.  The handful of creatives then take the learning from their 360 degree review and make some astounding advancements, and so it goes.  In this age of technological advancement we think that masses just aren’t ready for this speed of change, but it’s more than that.

I was recently reading a book about CREATORS and came across the great artist Turner.  Apparently Turner was known for always looking for new colors.  He would be among the first to try bold new colors and it greatly benefited his work.  The masses were shocked at the vibrancy of his paintings because they were great, yes, but also because they were slightly different in their shades and vibrancy.

So you see it’s not just about technology and communication, it’s been happening since the beginning.  The masses adapt to technology once it has been proven.  The problem for you and I is that the masses often miss critical profit, benefit, and blessing from the months, or even years between the development of a concept and it mass acceptance because they don’t examine and 360 for themselves.  Not everyone has the sensibility to desire to do a 360 on new technologies and methods, but more people should.

For example, how many of you are thinking and looking at ways to use IPad technology in your work?  Yes, I know that it’s not out yet, but just imagine for a moment.  How would this change the way you share information?  Would you benefit from an App on a larger screen device such as an IPAD?  Would this change the way you need to develop your website interactivity?  How would you change the way you record and plan your teaching, newsletters, communication with supporters? Now that the KINDLE is opening for apps as a response to the IPAD, how would that affect your literature development and book budget?  There are are probably about 1000 other questions you could ask on this subject alone, yet most people still don’t wan to commit to even using smart phones even through the next advancement has already begun.

Let’s push oursevles and each other to ask the great questions that will bring us to a place of developing creatively.  It’s not just about dreaming up things that have never existed, it’s about using things that now exist in new ways.

DC

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