It’s so easy to forget that everyone around you is carrying some weight of concern in their life. We humans tend to judge everyone by the exterior appearance. If they are smiling they must be happy right?
Unfortunately, we also learn at an early age to put on masks that hide our true feelings. It’s uncomfortable and awkward to let people know of our deepest disappointments and fears. Somehow we forget that others have those same kinds of pressures and concerns we do. Even if someone seems like they have it all together, they still need your love and encouragement.
Make a plan and a habit to encourage the people you see today – regardless of whether or not they seem to need it. And don’t go half-way either. Really communicate what makes them special. ”You have so many great qualities. I really appreciate you.” or “I can’t tell you enough how much I appreciate the hard work you do” will do wonders in a persons life. You’ll be surprised how by encouraging others you will feel better yourself.
The amazing power of encouragment. Use it wisely today.
DC
So true. And David, you are really excellent at letting God’s love flow through you to touch people. You have been an encouragement to me, and to countless others.
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My kids grew up with the mantra, ‘encourage, lift-up, build one another.’ This is a great reminder – thanks! Oh, by the way, love the time you spend getting to know donors in creative ways!
I’m listening to a CD by Norman Vincent Peale, and he is totally in favor of positive visioning and good vibes for everyone…Also the book by Dale Carnegie points out that we should give people genuine encouragement.. one good technique is to use the other person’s name as much as possible.. because research has shown that to the majority of people, the sweetest sound in the world is the sound of their own name…
David, you are a great golf partner and a fantastic friend… GBY
Good word David! Thanks for the reminder. Can you imagine a community, a city, our world functioning in such a way?! Starts with 1